Fornication is a sexual relationship that exists between unmarried man and woman. This is talking about a man and woman that are not married but practicing sexual act, and this is a state of rebellion against Gods word. (
1 Corinthians 16:16-18). Whenever we are talking about its danger, we are talking about the pitfall and their consequences.
In this message we are talking about the danger of all the sin called “
sexual immorality”. Fornication is a slave master that enslaves any one that involve in it, and ensures the bondage of the person. Fornication come through lust and not through love, and is a deliberately act to destroy your own soul, for fornication is a dead trap.
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When temptation to fornicate come, you don’t need to stay to think about it or to debate the matter in your heart saying “
should I or should I not”, the only remedy is to flee, you will only be safe when you flee. If Joseph has waited with Potiphar wife to think twice, he wouldn’t have become the prime minister, his destiny and star would have been in the bondage.
Women that gave out their body cheap, do not know the negative part of it, when a man is pursuing anything in skirt, even if he sees dog or goat that put on skirt, such a man do not know the negative part of it, for fornication damn the souls and will keep one out of heaven. 1 Corinthians 6:9-11. When you began to involve in internet dating, consequences are alarming.
THE DANGER OF FORNICATION AND ITS CONSEQUENCES
Last year December, I went for a program, the pastor showed me a very high tower that is uncompleted building, she said a lady was killed at the kill high tower December 26, I asked, why he said, the lady was chatting with the man and both of them were dating each other on Facebook, and the man invited the lady to come and meet him, the lady went with her ungodly and sinful cloth.
We are living in sex crazing world that pornography has become home video, and fornication has become part of civilization, but The Lord still says ”
The body is not for fornication but for The Lord” 1 Corinthian 6:13. Fornication has slain many destinies; watch over your heart now with diligence lest you begin your journey on a path of doom.
Proverb 4:23.
You may say, is my body and is not anybody business, when the horrific consequences shall come, you shall bare it alone. Proverb 6:26-29. The world is full of attractive and seductive men and women, who are ready to share their virus with you, so flee fornication.
Some would be watching
sexual programs and video and begin to masturbate, romance their self, do all manner of immoral, but once you watch it, you put yourself into bondage, and the problem of the person you are watching would be share with you, and half of the demon inside the person you are watching would be transfer into your body, this is automatic.
So every second you spend watching sexual images on tv, magazines, on internet are adding problem to your life, and it can ruin the plan of God for your life. When your body is capture by the devil through fornication, the spirit of God will leave and devils spirit will have freedom to frustrate your life, and when there is a spirit in you, you will be control by that spirit, that’s why many that confess and made up their mind not to do it again still go back. Proverb 5:3-5.
Fornication bonds any one that involve in it with chain of misfortunes, and it will make the life of the person reckless. Many marriages ended in divorces because of fornication, any couples that involve in fornication or sexual act before marriages should be ready to bear the consequences, because there will be misunderstanding in such home, anger and hatred, for fornication is a dead trap.
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How lasting and satisfying is the sin of fornication? Is just a moment pleasure worthy of exchange for the glorious heaven? The kingdom of Solomon was divided into 2 because of sin of fornication. Samson lost his power through fornication and immorality. Reuben lost the blessing of first born because of fornication, what a great lost. What can fornication do? It grieves the Holy Spirit to leave, it lead to the lost of the presence of God. 1 Corinthian 6:18-19.
Fornication would open you up to diseases, and the disease the person you commit fornication with would be transfer into your body, whether physical or spiritual disease, because the logic is “what I have I will give you, and what you have I will received. Fornication lead to demonic transfer, if the man or the woman have 2000 demon in him or her, half of it would be transfer into your body.
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Fornication would make you to lose God’s blessing, and wreck home and happiness, its pleasure is fleeting but its effect is lifelong. It leads to transferring of curse and disappointment.
It takes one to hell, eternal abode of sinner, where there is weeping and lamenting is not quench and the worms eating their body never died.
SET SEXUAL BOUNDARIES
Sexual immorality is on the increase all over the world. Adultery is fast becoming the norm and men of God are also joining the club. Married women are not left out, many are having secret lovers and emotional affairs are becoming the order of the day.
Job 31:1 "I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?
The rate at which immorality is increasing is alarming! It is spreading fast into every nook and cranny and children are also being initiated into the club. It's no news that 4, 5 years old kids now have sex with each other. Staying sexually pure these days is becoming a Herculean task. One of the reasons people fall flat into illicit sex is over confidence.
The stupid belief that you can be free around the opposite sex and nothing would happen! A lot will happen! One of the ways you can stay sexually pure whether married or single these end time is to set strict boundaries. If you are too careless around the opposite sex, you will fall flat on your face!
That is the truth. The earlier you believe this and work on it, the better. You can't be careless around the opposite sex and hope to stay sexually pure, set boundaries! There are some people who can't be your friends, raise the standard. Any body can call you names, that's their headache, you have your destiny to protect.
As a rule, I don't make friends with liars, gossips and jealous people. They make life so complicated. If you believe in illicit sex, we can't be friends, period! Monitor your chats. Don't allow anybody send you flirty messages, no matter how innocent it sounds, warn them and if they refuse to stop, block them! Limit the hugs and touches. If your hugging anointing is only for me, I want none of it.
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Don't allow anybody call you pet names (except your close family members and same sex friends), it doesn't make any sense. Pet names turn the opposite on, if you don't know that, know it right now.Be sensitive to attractions. Don't be naive around the opposite sex, know when a man/ woman is sexually attracted to you and move back from that person. If they focus too much on your physique and body, they are sexually attracted to you, move back.
Know when you are sexually attracted to someone and move back. It's perfectly normal to have chemistry for someone. Marrying the greatest man on earth or the most beautiful, virtous woman in the universe will not automatically stop you from being attracted to someone else. Know when the thought of another man/ woman get you excited and move back.
Don't jump at new relationships. Give it time. Study the person, know what they stand for, see if your core values are compatible, if not, move back! Leadership attracts all kinds of people. If you are a leader or you are gifted, talented or intelligent, the opposite sex will show more interest in you, be careful whom you allow to get close to you.
Accepts gifts with care. Men don't joke with their time and money. If he spends so much time and money on you especially when you do not ask, he may one day ask for sex. Stop begging men for money. Work with your two hands and raise your standard. Men will respect and honor you for it.
Work on your marriage. Fix the problem as soon as possible or else you get attracted to someone who gives you what you lack in your marriage, adultery is the result. Be prayerful, be watchful. Jesus says
"watch and pray that ye may not fall into temptation (Matthew 26:41)
Don't stay with the opposite sex in a dark or lonely room. Don't counsel the opposite sex on a bed in a lonely room. Avoid provocative dresses and pictures. Let your spouse or parents advise you on what is okay for you. Mind the pictures you post on the social media, if it is getting unnecessary opposite sex attention, delete it.
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Don't visit the opposite sex alone, especially at night. It doesn't make sense. These and more are the things you need to do to stay sexually pure in this 21st century. People may laugh at you, it doesn't matter. They may call you a neurotic, psychotic, fanatic, over sensitive or paranoid, don't give a damn! Your destiny is too precious to waste on the altar of sin.
Avoid friends who make fun of holiness and make friends with people who appreciate purity and holiness. Finally, avoid the second look, as far possible. I agree perfectly with Job on his resolution never to look lustfully at any lady. Yes, you can avoid the second look. Set your boundaries and never allow anyone to compromise your holiness.
Now if you have already yielded into fornication, confess to The Lord, for if any one sin, he has an advocate with the father, promise The Lord not to do it against by the power of his saving grace. Pray for serious deliverance from the evil covenant you have entered through fornication, pray for deliverance from the demon that has been transfer into your body and you will be delivered in Jesus name.
